Seeking advice from Ladies & possible couples...
We have been a member here on Adult FriendFinder off & on for nearly 3+
years now. Our first experience was a major disappointment
for me (male), but I kept on for wife who was enjoying her
self until she realized she was the trophy. -- Without
the gory details, we got used by a couple looking for a female,
but stated they sought a couple. -- We had developed a friendship
and did lots of things together (outside of the bedroom,
slick ploy on their part...), but over time I realized what
was really going on. And then one of their teenage sons (the
younger one, 16 I believe) made a comment and it was confirmed.
We had been Burnt! -- So since then we have sought to fulfill
my desire, to have a friendship with benefits with an attractive
woman. One nighters arent appealing, they seem cheap
and shallow... -- We have tried various approaches to our
ad over time. No pics, tasteful pics, raw pics, long detailed
description of what is sought, shorter versions. Sought
bi and straight gals. But not much luck. -- Granted we dont
live in a big urban area, but we will drive if there is some
feeling to be felt. Hell, drove 3 hours one way, for a summer
just to get used... (though to her credit she wasnt to bad
giving head) -- Seems the single gals, run from married
guys, even though we state he can play, with her permission-no
cheating. The bi-gals seem to only really want a (bi)female.
And we arent so sure about trying a couple again, but would
welcome it if things felt right. -- Anybody have suggestions
how to redo our ad with the above in mind? At least we have
learned how to sort out the spammer chicks. -- Somewhat
bummed, but looking for that twist that will work yet!...
Thanx,
LoveUsBoth22
|
