For Ladies Only: Annihilate Male Liar's Quickly
OK OK, Ive been a bit rough the last couple of days, going
way out of my way to make trouble for you.
Im sorry ladies.
Im going to attempt to make it up to you now, by suggesting
some strategies to weed out males liars quickly, so you
dont waste your precious time with them.
First, lets pull the curtain back, and have a peek at the
core issue.
Why do so many guys bedevil you with their lying ways?
I say, its because its the easiest way to counterbalance
the reality that the average woman can run rings around
the average man. Lying enables a man to get what he wants,
usually sex, without running the gauntlet of a womans
machinations.
Well, to me, this begs the next question. If the average
woman can run rings around the average man, then how is such
a man able to deceive such a woman?
I say its because she has supplied him with all of the information
that he needs to paint her a picture of what she desires.
All of us make plans. All of us want things to go in particular
directions. I say most woman conceptualize a desired result,
and then they want to believe its unfolding, as desired.
The pull of being in the presence of a desired goal is powerful
for everyone. Therefore if a man can be what you want him
to be, everybodys happy, at least until the endgame.
So I suggest this strategy to weed out the bastards before
youve finished your first drink.
Once youve marked and decided to pursue a man, its time
for your Gameface.
The goal is simple.
Reveal nothing substantial about yourself until this
fellow has been run through your checklist.
It is positively essential that the man do 90% of the talking.
Continually ask him questions? If this annoys him-Goodbye.
The questions are designed, by you, to ensnare and annihilate
liars -Quickly.
What might those questions be?
Well, lets assume for a second that in your mind- there is
no chance, none whatsoever, that you would ever hookup
with a Republican and/or Democrat. You are so opposed to
their viewpoint, that its inconceivable that you could
have anything substantial in common. If thats the case,
then you should comment to the man your talking to about
something the opposing administration has done, glowingly.
Insinuate that you like what theyre about, but leave room
to backtrack, just in case hes like you. If the guy is silent,
or tries to change the subject-GREAT. If you goes down the
road of praising the administration you loath-
Check please
Lets suppose you want to settle down and have kids soon.
Tell the guy how youre considering a lifestyle model
where you plan to work at your career until your 35, then
have children. Again, if the guy is silent, or tries to change
the subject-GREAT
If he leans in and tells you what a great and compelling idea
that is-
Bartender-what do I owe you?
Be prepared for your questions to be answered with questions.
DONT TAKE THE BAIT.
Bounce it right back.
Want to gain an understanding of where he stands regarding
how to treat children?
Ask questions about child rearing from several directions.
Discuss things youre opposed to with vague approval,
and see what he does with it. Liars will take the information
you give them and run with it. Good guys dont.
Its unfortunate that such strategies need to be contemplated
at all, but such is life.
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