Re: Why No Reply? (woman's prerogative )
This is for the guys that say, "Why don't girls
reply back...even if just to say no thanks".
Listen up, here's why!
"Never give them an opening!" It's a woman's
(or anyone's) prerogative to reply, ignore, wink,
interact, and choose WHO THEY WANT!
You may have a spit and polished profile, and be a decent
person...but how in the heck AM I SUPPOSED to know that?
If you haven't noticed...this is a sex site...and
it's teeming with degenerates, psychopaths, perverts,
and other unspeakable atrocities devoid of humanity.
"Normal" rules of etiquette don't quite
apply here. Get a grip on reality man!
The truth of the matter is, that most guys can't take
rejection very well...and in most cases (online) it's
just better to let things drift away. There is NO POLITE
WAY of saying "thanks, but no thanks".
Trust me, I've tried it BOTH ways...and you're
"darned if you do, and you're darned if you don't".
And honestly...I'd rather them just go away...sooner
or later they get the hint.
So the question isn't "why won't they reply"...the
question is, "can YOU accept it if they don't".
Please stop whining if someone doesn't reply to you...if
they don't...they have their reasons...and YOU HAVE
TO LIVE WITH IT!
Uggghh, "Boys"...will they ever learn?
Now ironically...I've just "given you all an
opening"...and I know I'm going to hear about
it. I'm sure I'll get some emails...but guess
what? Yep! I'm just going to ignore you if you're
one of the before mentioned "usuals" on this
site. So, dont waste yours, mine, and everyone elses
time. Do try to grow up, and move on.
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