Blowjobbing techniques - Part II in the series on BJ
Part two Blowjobbing techniques ( the mechanics of pleasing
the one-eyed-monk )
For those with absolutely no experience: The penis, when
erect, consist of a shaft (length and diameter vary form
individual to individual similar to the female breast)
connected to the torso at the one end, at the other end is
a silky smooth enlargement that can be viewed as an three
dimensional arrow head the HEAD (of the penis)
The basic design (credit to the designed) of the penis is
such that the whole organ is much more sensitive than most
other parts of the body, but the HEAD is the most sensitive.
The head contains the nerve ends, that if stimulated enough,
instructs the rest of the mechanism to ejaculate, and thus
release the seed that impregnates the female mechanism
.. I said this part is for the absolute inexperienced.
Now, for a partner to stimulate a male, giving the right
circumstances (out on a date, some chemistry and some expectation)
touching of the penis anywhere will do to get it to full attention
full attention differs from individual to individual,
and most men would insist that 200mm (8 inches) is average,
but personally I believe 125mm (5 inches) is closer to the
truth .. for all of you sitting with rulers in your hands
at this stage measure from the torso (stomach) at the top
of the monster and not the bottom, and certainly not from
the anus to the tip the way you measure your cats tail.
For those without penises and little experience: I believe
the average human body is built proportionally and in general
large bodies have large features. So look at a mans hands/fingers
and nose to judge the size of his other equipment. Next time
you are on a date and this 2.2m monster (7+ foot) monster
clutches your hands with his banana-like fingers be wise
you may be in for some pole climbing when you get him to full
attention.
To get a tardy penis to full attention, or to start your stimulation
slowly attention must be given to the shaft and not the head.
(Stimulation of the shaft is what most men view as foreplay
note the slight difference between the views of men and
women)
Ways to stimulate the shaft:
Soft touches: With your partner laying down, or slouching
in a chair the erect or semi-erect penis will allow you (sitting/kneeling
either at his side or in front of him) to stroke the underside
(the side attached to the testicle sack). This can be done
by running your finger/s up and down the shaft - roughly
at the pace that you will play with your hair. Start slowly
and with a light touch, the pace and firmness of touch can
increase as the session continuous. Alterations of the
stroke to keep things interesting can be to use your nails
on the upstroke (very lightly though as not to break the
skin); On the down-stroke run your fingers down the testicle
sack (treat the way you do eggs when you separate the yolk
from the white smooth movements, no bumps and jolts here),
run the fingers all the way down to where the sack meets the
legs/bum, and move all the way up on the upstroke make sure
to cup/cuddle the testicles.
Well prepared: When you decide the penis is well enough
prepared (i.e. being hard and the subject is getting impatient)
you can start increasing the pressure on the shaft. Forming
a V between fingers and thumb, or encircling the shaft between
fingers and thumb, you can start giving short and firm strokes
on the shaft. Short strokes because you are taking a firm
grip on the shaft, the stroke distance will be determined
by the flexibility of the skin.
With the penis fully erect (hard as steel and throbbing
with every heartbeat perhaps even with a drop or two of
clear sticky fluid running out the little slit at the tip
commonly known as pre-cum) you can move on to the HEAD.
The HEAD is so important that a little anatomy lesson on
it is a must at this point. With the penis fully erect and
the bearer standing, the view the man has of it we will call
the top , and the other side, the side closest to the floor,
we will call the bottom not to be confused with bottoms
and arse play.
The design of the arrow-head (refer to the opening paragraph)
is such that the top side is a continuous silky smooth surface
and the bottom side is, whilst also silky smooth, divided
into two equal halves. A domestically inclined partner
of mine (a very enthusiastic one I may add) had referred
to the HEAD as a piece of dough wrapped around the point of
the shaft and joined at the bottom.
Now, although I have said that the HEAD is the most sensitive,
there are areas on the HEAD that are more sensitive than
the rest pay attention, when you start tiring, you will
want to know about these areas to get things over quickly.
The sensitive, sensitive areas on the HEAD are the rim of
the arrow on the top-side and the rim and most of the area
next to the joint on the bottom side. Keeping this in mind
we can now get on with stimulating the HEAD.
Interlude by hand:
Using your hand covering the HEAD as if to turn a doorknob,
turn the head of his penis like you're trying to open
a doorknob coated with grease. Now try turning the other
way. Repeat. This stroke is sometimes improved by using
the other hand to stretch the skin of the shaft toward the
base. Start with soft turns on the dry skin and improve this
by wetting the hand with pre-cum, saliva or water based
lubrication jelly. Start slowly and increase the pace
as required.
To extend his pleasure (and tease) you can alternate between
the HEAD and the shaft, but dont ignore the HEAD too long
(after you have first start touching it):
Bring both well-lubricated hands down on his shaft,
use the other hand to caress and lightly flutter his balls,
or tighten around the base of his shaft. If both hands fit
along the length of the shaft then move them together, up
and down, in the typical pumping motion. You can also vary
the directions of your hands: one up, one down at the same
time
Keeping a lubricated, semi closed fist above the penis,
stroke down by letting the penis "penetrate"
into your fist on each stroke. As the head of his penis pops
out of your hand (the hand is now moving down the shaft),
bring the other hand up for the next penetration. This way
it seems to him like he is penetrating deeper and deeper
into an infinite vagina. Make sure you keep the penetration
continuous for best results. Try faster or slower to taste.
Make a ring with your thumb and forefinger and pump up
and down with it. When you get to the top close the ring. Then
make him squeeze his way in as you slide back down to the bottom.
Oral interlude:
Instead of an interlude by hand, use your mouth to stimulate
the shaft and tease the HEAD. You can lick up and down the
shaft and touch on the HEAD when you reach the top. You can
start applying more pressure and nibble up and down and
along the ridge of the HEAD. There are a number of variations
and dont forget combinations of oral and hand stimulation.
Now we have covered the start (male version of foreplay)
and the interlude where you start introducing lubrication/oral.
What remains is to equip you with the knowledge to finish
the job orally including whether to swallow or not to swallow.
So it seems that 4 parts will be required: Part I covered
the ground rules, Part II is this bit on the mechanics of
the beast, Part III will be on oral technique(s) and how
to ensure a grand finale and Part IV will be on tips and tricks
to both enhance his pleasure and economise on your effort.
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