Desire is MORE important than technique
I enjoyed Lisa Chavez's article on "Dining at
the Y". However, I think that men and women must realize
that technique can be read about and learned. However,
desire, desire for to savor a woman's sex can not be
taught or learned.
I am an avid pussy eater ... One of my fantasies is to have
a room full of women for me to eat. One after another. I love
the tase of a woman's sex. With out a doubt it is true
that each tastes unique. A new dining experience every
time.
Over the years I've learned all of the techniques you
described. I learned them, not by reading a book, but by
reading the women. I listen with my eyes, ears, fingers,
lips, and tongue. Unknowingly, these women have taught
me lot.
However, from my point of view technique is not the most
important thing. Technique can always be learned. Desire
can not be learned ... you either have it or you don't.
I LOVE to eat pussy. I LOVE the look of pussy ... especially
up close. I LOVE the smell of (a clean) pussy. I even LOVE
the taste and LOVE sucking up all of her nectar.
I can only guess that my lust, adoration, and utter enjoyment
of a woman's sex is felt by her. Technique can be so mechanical,
without feeling. I don't consciously think about
what I'm doing I just treat her like the most delicious
meal in a seven star restaurant, to be savored and not gulped
down to a climax. I am in the moment, taking her scent, and
taste into me. I am completely aware of only her, nothing
else exists.
I may not do exactly what a particular woman wants me to do
on the first attempt, or maybe even the second or third.
She may not even know her self. But, I suspect she can sense
my appreciation, even adoration of her sex.
Amazingly, many women hold back when they orgasm while
I am eating them. Whether I'm lying between her legs
or eating her from behind as she is on her knees I much prefer
that she cut loose and cum all over my face.
My ideal woman is one who gives me her sex as if she were feeding
a starving man, and also hase the same lusty craving for
my cock as I have for her pussy.
Technique can be learned, desire can't. And if given
the choice I'll choose the one with desire.
David (GivingLoverX)
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