in response to niceperson66 on cock shots, women's opinion
Niceperson66 is considering the photos he will submit
with his profile and since some women have asked him to send
him shots of his penis, he's wondering if he should.
He's afraid that they will not attract the kind of woman
that he eventually wants to meet. I'm not sure what
kind of woman that would be, besides one who is not interested
in seeing photos of strange men's dicks. I absolutely
will not respond to a profile accompanied by a hard on shot
or even a plan old cock shot. It makes me think several things
about the man who sends naked pictures of himself, firstly,
that he has a problem with his penis size, (ok, forget that
one, I haven't met a man yet who doesn't!) that
he has no regard for my sensibility, that he is laying out
all of his cards at once without regard to finesse, in otherwords,
that foreplay is probably not part of the package, that
he is ruled by his penis, that he is an ugly sob afraid to show
his face or that he is cheating on his partner and is afraid
of being recognized, that he thinks he has something impressive,
(which, I'll tell you right now, you don't!),
that he is childish, like a little boy showing off, and I
can come up with several other feelings which are provoked
by cock shots, these are just a few.
What I'd like to see in a photo is a man's eyes and
his lips, his smile.
Intelligence, humor, kindness are all much more important
to me than a man's penis and I'm tired of having
that type of picture sent to me. Love making is not about
a penis, it's about intimacy. Yours in great sex, VB
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