RE: why blame everyone else?
First let me say that I agree with a lot of what you said. I
too often get messages that are exteremly crude or very
obviously have not read the profile, however, I will say
that I know firsthand that guys do have it tougher. My husband
and I have an open relationship, and we both have our own
sites. I, as a woman, picked his pics and helped him write
his profile. I have also helped him send messages to women,
and he receives very few responses. It isn't all the
guys fault. Having helped him go through the female galary
and having been through the male one for myself, I can say
without a doubt that there are about 6 times the men on this
site as women, and not all the women are looking for men,
so the field of available women is narrower still. Add to
that the number of fake profiles, oh yeah, they exist, sorry
but someone named Candicumblast (thats my favorite) w/her
professional porn shot is not real. However, some of us
are, I certainly am, so thats why what this woman said is
so important for you guys. If the chances are slim to begin
with, why make it harder???
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