Heads up men
I recently had mail from another member who was going to
be visiting in my area of the country. There are hundreds
of miles separating us so when he asked for possible dinner
and a tour guide of the city, I accepted the offer as being
just that. A friendly get together. After all, my profile
says I'm looking for someone to meet with on an exclusive
level which would indicate it's not a one night stand
that I want. His profile said he loves a lady to can set an
atmosphere when she's wining or dining or in the bedroom.
That didn't sound like, "give up booty or no dinner."
The morning this guy was driving into town, I got a call and
after briefly chatting he cut to the chase. He basically
told me that if I wasn't planning on sleeping with him
after dinner that we should be adults and respect one another,
not to waste time, and skip meeting. I have to say I was shocked
and turned down the meeting. My thoughts were screaming,
"What???!!! Either agree to sleep with you or stay
home?" Isn't that like the kid who says, you can't
play in my sand box if you don't do things my way? What
part of that is adult?
I can't agree to sleep with someone who I've done
3 emails with and 10 minutes of phone conversation. I can't
make an educated decision about whether or not a man is even
safe to be around with that limited contact. I'm glad
I said no but sorry I didn't advise him to call the local
escort service because he was really looking for something
like that.
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