Re:Why do some men ignore the clit?
In response to: I have had guys down there licking ther life
away. But never notice to lick my clit what is that about?
submitted on 2/15/2004 by round552 .....Made me laugh!
I`m only a standard member, so couldn`t check to see if the
poster was very young, but I expect that that`s the case.
The male anatomy is pretty obvious (dick and balls, hanging
there to see), the females a little more ...mysterious??
, (labia majora, labia minora, vagina, uterus, clitoris....)
Young guys with little experience may not quite have it
figured out yet. And depending on the woman, the clit is
often "hiding". You need to know where to look
for it. ;-) Communication is necessary in any relationship,
even if it`s just sexual. By all means, if he`s missing the
spot, point it out to him!!! Ok, stroke his ego, too!! ;-)
Maybe "that feels great!! My clit is right here....it
wants some (a lot) of that great licking too!!!" ......In
short, the younger you are, the more you have to communicate
what you need and what feels good. But at any age that`s still
neccessary....everyone differs in what they like and
how they like it. I`ve had lovers that couldn`t handle much
direct clitoral stimulation. So speak up, and say what
you want and where!!!! John
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