How does a shy man get back after a 12 year marriage?
I am good looking, so had a full sex life before marriage
despite my shyness. However, after 12 years of marriage
and a recent seperation I forget how to go about getting
it on. On the few dates I've had, I feel very shy and fear rejection.
In fact, I'm getting to the point that I do not want to ask
anyone out.
In my single days I used to hang around swinger clubs and
get picked up by couples. While I still have the same models
build that I had in those days my hair is grey and I think that
despite my good looks ladies and couples will feel I'm too
old. I don't like to dye my hair because I feel it is dishonest
to my dates and unhealthy for me. I work out 5 times a week
and still get a lot of glances by the ladies at the YMCA.I
have the equipment and stamina to please a lady. I also love
to give a woman head. Yet, I have not had sex since my wife
left in September. I was faithful the entire time of our
marriage, so am in need of an understanding woman or couple.
Any suggestions about getting started again would be very
helpful to me. Tony
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