Making the first move
When meeting anyone off of Adult FriendFinder, i find that the first meeting
is the do or die point. Making that first move, you know,
after weeks and months of talking with that special someone,
then you finally build up the nerve to meet. You find yourself
sitting across from them, looking into their eyes. If you
were lucky enough to view one another on cam, things might
be easy, for i have found out that even with a cam, some people
do not look the same. Can you believe that? Even the cam plays
tricks on you. Which is why i truely believe those people
in jail that say that that wasn't them on the viedo footage.
(LOL) Hey even R. Kelly might be innocent. Anyway, back
to the point. So yo looking into their eyes, the conversation
is going swell. You feel the chemistry that you had online.
I usually like working my way up on the move chart. Yes the
move chart. There are different levels of moving in for
the kill(figure of speaking). Like the slight bumping
into the other person. Seeing how they react when you are
close to them. For example you open up the door for them,
but you open it so that you are very close to them when they
walk in, so that your bodies touch. Or if you sitting with
them on the bus or in a cab. Get close, see if they are comfortable
with you. Trust me, if they don't like you, they will
move, I know i have. (LOL) Then there is the taps. You know,
like if you make a joke and you tap someone on the arm. The
hand grazing. Where your hands are close together, and
you slowly slide yours on theirs. That is probably one of
the most sure ways of telling if someone is really into you.
Nothing like sitting at a dinner table and you reach out
for their hands, and they respond, then you sitting there
enjoying the moment...awwwwww. There are many other ways,
but i think i have made enough to get my point across. That
making the first move is not only a crucial part of the getting
to know someone process, but a very true indicator if things
are going to workout or fail. So hold your head up, be strong,
be confindent, and go get them tiger.
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