three or four?
We are a couple. We have been together for 5 years...have
2 boys together, and one on the way...before we got pregnant
this time, we discussed our fantasies, as we are open about
everything with each other. We decided, seeing as I am bisexual
and he loves watching two women, that we would bring a third
party into the mix and find a female playmate. We did that,
and we both got extremely attached to her. I did not mind
this as I am not an insecure woman and I feel very stable and
secure with our love and bond for each other. The woman that
we were intimate with was a lesbian when we got together
with her but after seeing each other for a couple of months
and making some commitments together, she started feeling
stirs of curiosities for men, due to my mans selflessness
and tenderness and patience with her sexually. We both
fell very hard for her, and had told her so and she said that
she felt the same way about us and respected us as a couple,
and everything seemed great. Then my man decided to introduce
his best friend of 20 years to her and made sure he was aware
of the situation involving the three of us. This woman and
I had made a commitment to being gf's and sharing my
husband and were both comfortable with it. However, within
a week of meeting his best friend they decided that they
were going to get together without us knowing and then just
dropped the bomb on us..my husband as well as myself were
very hurt and felt betrayed by her as she had been full of
empty promises and then went after his best friend knowing
that we would never cross that line. So now he has decided
that he cannot handle being with just another female because
it hurt us both so deeply and says he only wants to be with
couples. I however am not really interested in other men
in the least...and am totally content with just him as my
male lover, but have cravings for women all the time..so
I guess my question is...should we just let what was done
to us heal?..and try with another female when the sting
goes away?..or should we do as he suggests even though I
am not really keen on it and play with couples who I really
have no interest in, just to avoid having ourselves crushed
like that again?..We feel very used and manipulated and
dont quite know what the best route is right now.
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